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John Losoya's avatar

There's the cognitive decision or position, possibly the declaration and/or intention, a philosophical assent to love oneself yet the loving of oneself and others is manifested in action. To love oneself is to desire the best for yourself and then work at providing it. Faith without works is dead. Loving oneself is providing good healthy food, rest, entertainment, companions, education, spiritual exercises, etc.

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Jenny duBay's avatar

I agree, John! To love oneself means to take care of oneself, that's crucial. Yet it goes beyond exterior acts. We need to love ourselves not just with our heads or actions, but deep inside our hearts. This goes beyond providing oneself with healthy foods, rest, etc. (all of which are a part of it), and into the realm of pure acceptance in all ways. We must let ourselves be loved as Christ loves us, which is a Love we cannot even comprehend because it's so great. Abiding in His side--in His heart--we find the truth of Love, and so we're able to truly love in return.

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John Losoya's avatar

Love is Incarnate, en-fleshed, tangible...not just theoretical 😁

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Jenny duBay's avatar

Beautiful -- yes!

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Jocelyn Soriano's avatar

I need to be reminded of this quite often!

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Kathleen Daley's avatar

One cannot give what one does not have. If I don't love myself, I don't have love to give to others. I pray for this gift of love every day!

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Sophia's avatar

Beautiful!!!

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